How to Like College

WRITTEN BY ABHI KASHIKAR

There are a lot of expectations people have when starting college. As seniors in high school, most students look at college as an opportunity to restart and live independently. While it can be a remarkable time, there are a lot of factors that go into defining your experience. If you’re just starting or looking to revamp your time thus far, here are a few suggestions that might help like college a little bit more:

When in doubt, do it. 

You’ve probably heard this a thousand times. Although overstated, it isn’t without reason. When trying to create an experience you enjoy, it’s important make memories. The best way to do that is by pushing yourself and doing things you wouldn’t have before. I am yet to meet a someone who’s finished their undergraduate schooling who passionately talks about how consistent and monotonous their schedule was. Memories stem from unique experiences, so try your best to put yourself in such situations. Whether it’s trying new foods or joining an organization, there’s always something to be learned and something to remembered. 

Don’t expect perfection. 

If I could, I would be sipping tropical drinks on the beach of private island with Jeff Bezos. It’s common to want a perfect life, but you need to know there are going to be hiccups along the way. Rather than trying to avoid them and run into other issues, be willing to embrace and learn from them. You may not get the internship you wanted or miss out on friend’s birthday, but remember that this happens to everyone. Holding yourself to unreal standards is unhealthy and isn’t going to help anyone. After all, college is a time to learn.

P.S. American Idol judge Simon Cowell was rumored to have failed more tests than he passed in college. If he had a great time, I’m sure you can too. 

Balance is key. 

You may find something you fall in love with, but doing it everyday for four years will definitely be taxing. Partying every day and letting your grades suffer may not be the best idea for your future, but locking yourself in the library for 70 hours a week will take a toll on your mental health. Understanding your strengths and weaknesses and creating a schedule that works for you is important- this may take time, but its worth the investment, It’s tough to get an effective college experience if your only living a part of it!